Too bad I came across this blog late, as it doesn’t look like you’re writing it any longer. I, too, am at a peculiar stage, being able to somehow emotionally detach myself from my feelings and analyze them. It was refreshing to read about someone else that can do it, and express it in their writings.

this notion of the twin soul is both true, in that it is a bound between said person that is some what over riding. and false because that implies that you must be with that person leads me to believe that it is false.

God maid man and woman to be free to love or destroy as he/she wishes. which, latter on, either get paid or pay for his goods and/or bad deeds

So as for their being a definite soul mate that is a no no. Due to, in this unstable world, it could be that a Good person would be dammed to be with a bad one.This is not what I think God Had in mind.

So soul mate as a definite … no no if you see that their are several possibilities that a human can go through that I believe.

Going back to man giving birth …I know God forbid then you would have nothing to hold over our heads…lol be easy it’s a joke.

God saw man was alone but the beast of the earth was accompanied. Man decided to not be alone. For this reason, since God does not force against our will to do or not do, he maid woman out of man. science proves this as we are part woman and man (XY) But the woman Is only(YY)

you the woman now give birth but it is the man that decided to make a girl or a guy as women can not. this is yet another way we need each other.

so man searches to be whole sort of mathematically through trail and era while the women that came from inside man, much like his emotion, searches for the inner part of him. His love affection feeling of belonging. so we are bounded for life.

but who do we belong to? who will make us whole? that is our question.

In science moist of the time if something whether good or bad ( Mr married) is bounded if some other object (you) tries to join in the least that can happen is that superficial like a break away of said body part or cell (Her his wife) but at times a Unhealthy mutation will happen.

Like a third Eye on a fish that is what you will be. Your “soul mate” can be anyone God places by you if you just wait. You are way to special to just be a third EYE on a dying fish.

Mr married is Mr wrong.

Just thought someone should tell you straight out.

In science chemicals but at different rates, times speeds but when they do the bound is most often for life. Time and patience as well as common-seance will get you your other half to make you whole.

Just remember you are your own element he (your future man) needs you the same as you need him…Mr married is just Mr greedy.

There Are those… that will to marry early, those of the male species,like myself but I have not found that one girl that can bring my cartoon like imagination of love to erupt in me.

You say you “may indulge in a little fantasy” but we men also do. You think of the long term while men think of the now… this because women make it so. As much as I’d like to think far ahead, to delve into the mind of a woman,to be the romantic that I dream of, I can only think in short burst as it is a woman purgative to change her mind.

So how to form the future when women are the writers and we, men, merely the readers. You ask to much of us… meet us half way…meet us at a place of reality where your fantasy meets our cartoon like love.

That witch is formed on the sand will be taken away by the weakest of storms but that witch is build on a foundation of Rock will last even the strongest of forces.

Love is great to think of in fantasy but real…strong…worth while love only reaches story book proportions once the work …blood, sweat, and tears have been taken into account.

so let fantasize but let do it with real thought that no man or women for that fact is perfect. Maybe just maybe we can then create something real.

at least I think so.

By hope that help if not it was …weird writing this.

respectfully your

leodragoneyes

but yes, i agree with Ozy that this is very good.. it’s something i’d like to write to someone (though not at all sure if he is the man of my dreams). i once thought (and still think), like you, that i needed to know myself before i’ll find who i’m looking for. but now that there is someone, i’m still asking questions of myself.. it doesn’t get any easier..

i hope you are well.

The reason why men freeze up on the notion of marriage is because they enjoy their freedom, see the movie The Bachelor, as opposed to women who, according to society and biological clocks, need to get married at a “young” age.

My .02

vince

Why do men (in general) get turned-off by the idea of commitment?

(With commitment comes responsibility, limitations of choices, and lack of freedom)

General rule of thumb for me, broach nothing in the first year of dating & frolicking in bed (but then I’ve always been a slow worker; story of the Tortoise and the Hare, I was definitely the tortoise). Unless this person is someone you’ve known for ages.

Enjoy the moment, sweets. Most of the fun IS the journey.

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